Case study: I am not good

2025 Feb 21

How come they are so good.

 

Person X has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop:

“I have a history of going through the grind. Nothing comes easy to me. Every stretch and turn has a little surprise. How come the rest get to enjoy the breeze. Must be about me, not fair!”

 

Ever heard yourself saying so?

 

Openness & awareness –> Knowing oneself –> Sense of being complete –> Play to your strength –> Reduced expectations & desires –> It’s fair.

 

To break the loop see yourself and the world with an open mind.

For that is the weakest and strongest link in the loop. And the only one in your control.

 

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