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The more confident you are the more open you are

2025 Apr 20

Does it mean trading controlled outcomes for the unknown

Every role we play is about being confident and in control

A contradiction we learn to live with

Like the stress it creates

Ever thought about:

What are you confident about
Energy used in controlling outcomes
Is A leading to B

Confidence seems to be less about how you show up in world.

Is it more about how you see yourself:

Who you are trying to be
What walls, pulleys and moats have you built to secure yourself
What happens when you get what you want or don’t want

Can confidence become a hindrance.

Is it possible confidence was never about control as we were led to believe.

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