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2025 Feb 25

Distinction breeds success

Success causes separation, separation feeds loss   Every effect comes from an upstream hidden cause. The mighty river that feeds & floods the plains is replenished by tiny mountain streams.   We spend a lifetime working like machines, perspiring and proud. Executing activities and fighting consequences. And smile at those who ask what drives me, how will my river swell. Will it feed me and my tribe or will ...

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2025 Feb 23

The more you follow borrowed ideas

The greater the need for fluency in communication   What is inside-out is intuitive, free flowing and creative. It comes naturally. You don’t need the varnish of colourful words to express yourself.   See press secretaries and party spokespersons doing verbal somersaults to express the party position. While the top person shoots from the hip.   What the poet says in a few words, takes many lines for the ...

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2025 Feb 22

Case study: What I need I don’t want

Person Z has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “It’s doubtful that I don’t know what I need. I know it’s right for me, I Just don’t have the energy. I’ll rather go through this, allow myself to crib and make the best of it. But one day I promise I will!”   Ever heard yourself saying so?   When you find congruence in who ...

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2025 Feb 21

Case study: I am not good

How come they are so good.   Person X has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “I have a history of going through the grind. Nothing comes easy to me. Every stretch and turn has a little surprise. How come the rest get to enjoy the breeze. Must be about me, not fair!”   Ever heard yourself saying so?   Openness & awareness --> Knowing ...

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2025 Feb 20

Case study: I am good

Maybe just a little more would be better.   Person Y has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “I have done well by most standards especially when I see the world around me. However, this pushes me to do more, as I fear an unpredictable future. It’s not making sense, is it?”   Ever felt it?   Fear comes from expectations & desires. Which come ...

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2025 Feb 19

When the question becomes your compass

You step out of your shadow   Is there a question that has stayed with you for years Is there a question that has replaced it Is there a question that is sufficient by itself - not needing an answer   To question is to progress inside out Find your question & once in a while question your question   What is yours.

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2025 Feb 16

If not a magnet

Be the iron filings   “The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it hates those that speak it" George Orwell   Truth has many shades Your truth is different from mine However the voice within is an honest broker   In our attempt to be popular or go with the majority We loose the path and dislike those who remind us of our own choices   ...

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2025 Feb 13

To discover oneself

Let go off the strongest self   Curiosity is not a cognitive process Ever experienced a sunrise logically or the same dawn twice   To reinvent is to break the patterns that the brain loves To jump the gap trust your sixth sense While logic says makes no sense   Often to find oneself One needs to let go off the strongest self.

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2025 Feb 11

When, what you don’t know, matters more than what you know

You have taken ‘the road of limitless growth’   Everyone is inside a circle Some reduce the radius, some maintain it and some increase it   A few come to realise there is no circle Wherever they stand is both the centre and the edge of the circle ------ When you walk the circle so carefully outlined, you come back to the same place The father of the child ...

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2025 Feb 07

Beyond labels

What do I really do   Labels I use are coach, sounding board, catalyst, mentor, advisor or consultant to explain my field of work.   What really happens intuitively & structurally is we: Create space for great, safe, free flowing conversations Discover underlying beliefs & patterns Bring heightened awareness Bridge internal and external worlds – align intent and actions   What it leads to is clarity, conviction, and courage ...

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