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2025 Feb 21

Case study: I am not good

How come they are so good.   Person X has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “I have a history of going through the grind. Nothing comes easy to me. Every stretch and turn has a little surprise. How come the rest get to enjoy the breeze. Must be about me, not fair!”   Ever heard yourself saying so?   Openness & awareness --> Knowing ...

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2025 Feb 20

Case study: I am good

Maybe just a little more would be better.   Person Y has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “I have done well by most standards especially when I see the world around me. However, this pushes me to do more, as I fear an unpredictable future. It’s not making sense, is it?”   Ever felt it?   Fear comes from expectations & desires. Which come ...

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2025 Feb 19

When the question becomes your compass

You step out of your shadow   Is there a question that has stayed with you for years Is there a question that has replaced it Is there a question that is sufficient by itself - not needing an answer   To question is to progress inside out Find your question & once in a while question your question   What is yours.

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2025 Feb 16

If not a magnet

Be the iron filings   “The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it hates those that speak it" George Orwell   Truth has many shades Your truth is different from mine However the voice within is an honest broker   In our attempt to be popular or go with the majority We loose the path and dislike those who remind us of our own choices   ...

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2025 Feb 13

To discover oneself

Let go off the strongest self   Curiosity is not a cognitive process Ever experienced a sunrise logically or the same dawn twice   To reinvent is to break the patterns that the brain loves To jump the gap trust your sixth sense While logic says makes no sense   Often to find oneself One needs to let go off the strongest self.

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2025 Feb 11

When, what you don’t know, matters more than what you know

You have taken ‘the road of limitless growth’   Everyone is inside a circle Some reduce the radius, some maintain it and some increase it   A few come to realise there is no circle Wherever they stand is both the centre and the edge of the circle ------ When you walk the circle so carefully outlined, you come back to the same place The father of the child ...

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2025 Feb 07

Beyond labels

What do I really do   Labels I use are coach, sounding board, catalyst, mentor, advisor or consultant to explain my field of work.   What really happens intuitively & structurally is we: Create space for great, safe, free flowing conversations Discover underlying beliefs & patterns Bring heightened awareness Bridge internal and external worlds – align intent and actions   What it leads to is clarity, conviction, and courage ...

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2025 Feb 05

Everyone has a perfect imbalance

Which is why we laugh, cry, and aspire at same time   Just like the Earth’s tilt gives it seasons and promotes life So do you have an inclination that makes you you   In your imbalance lies your strength, opportunity, and contribution In your imbalance lies your design, construct, and convergence   What got you here, won’t get you there If it was never you   Perfectly imbalanced ...

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2025 Feb 03

When you bypass

You find the gap    Two friends came to a fork in the road The metalled road joined a busy highway The dirt road meandered into the horizon   One friend took the highway and the other desired to see what lay ahead Years went and no one knows what became of them   What is known is that the highway was expanded as traffic rose high And the ...

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2025 Feb 01

In a complex world you can’t be simple

But you need not be complicated   Complexity is the interaction of principles Complication is the absence of key principles   Complex is wholesome and sufficient – like the bee hive Complicated is unnecessary – like the traffic jam   Being principled is the shortest path through complexity   In a world that is increasingly interconnected and responsive, complexity is a natural outcome. Embrace complexity, drop complication. Live fully. ...

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