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2025 Feb 28

Conversations of the kind you want

With yourself     There is something unexplainable that happens When two people talk without the need to prove anything   When you flow naturally uninterrupted You reach a place that intuitively feels like home A place that reminds you of who you were and are   Silence is punctuated by words and pauses By thoughts and the thoughts behind the thoughts Till you hit a sweet spot of ...

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2025 Feb 26

The psychology of change

The power of Mahashivratri   What enables change?   Every person lives two lives simultaneously – an internal and external. The internal has layers to it – from thoughts, emotions, intellect to absolute awareness.   We are our most dominant / excited internal state irrespective of the mask we wear in external world.   When change presents itself, the person does not assess it on its merits. The person ...

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2025 Feb 25

Three questions that don’t keep me awake at night

Did modern medicine develop in response to new age diseases or is it the other way? Why does Deep State not offer Change Management courses – after all they are the best? With AI taking over jobs, will salaried employees finally get to do the kind of work they love? Bonus question: Why do we follow billionaires when they became billionaires by not following anyone? Any question that tickles ...

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2025 Feb 25

Distinction breeds success

Success causes separation, separation feeds loss   Every effect comes from an upstream hidden cause. The mighty river that feeds & floods the plains is replenished by tiny mountain streams.   We spend a lifetime working like machines, perspiring and proud. Executing activities and fighting consequences. And smile at those who ask what drives me, how will my river swell. Will it feed me and my tribe or will ...

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2025 Feb 23

The more you follow borrowed ideas

The greater the need for fluency in communication   What is inside-out is intuitive, free flowing and creative. It comes naturally. You don’t need the varnish of colourful words to express yourself.   See press secretaries and party spokespersons doing verbal somersaults to express the party position. While the top person shoots from the hip.   What the poet says in a few words, takes many lines for the ...

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2025 Feb 22

Case study: What I need I don’t want

Person Z has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “It’s doubtful that I don’t know what I need. I know it’s right for me, I Just don’t have the energy. I’ll rather go through this, allow myself to crib and make the best of it. But one day I promise I will!”   Ever heard yourself saying so?   When you find congruence in who ...

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2025 Feb 21

Case study: I am not good

How come they are so good.   Person X has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “I have a history of going through the grind. Nothing comes easy to me. Every stretch and turn has a little surprise. How come the rest get to enjoy the breeze. Must be about me, not fair!”   Ever heard yourself saying so?   Openness & awareness --> Knowing ...

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2025 Feb 20

Case study: I am good

Maybe just a little more would be better.   Person Y has a mental script that plays out in an endless loop: “I have done well by most standards especially when I see the world around me. However, this pushes me to do more, as I fear an unpredictable future. It’s not making sense, is it?”   Ever felt it?   Fear comes from expectations & desires. Which come ...

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2025 Feb 19

When the question becomes your compass

You step out of your shadow   Is there a question that has stayed with you for years Is there a question that has replaced it Is there a question that is sufficient by itself - not needing an answer   To question is to progress inside out Find your question & once in a while question your question   What is yours.

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2025 Feb 16

If not a magnet

Be the iron filings   “The further a society drifts from the truth, the more it hates those that speak it" George Orwell   Truth has many shades Your truth is different from mine However the voice within is an honest broker   In our attempt to be popular or go with the majority We loose the path and dislike those who remind us of our own choices   ...

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