When did the head take over the heart

2023 Oct 14

When did the head take over the heart

When we were in the womb, our heart started beating, before the brain developed. When we are ready to exit, medical science shows, our heart can beat without the brain while the brain cannot survive without the heart.

Somewhere in between the entry and exit, the head takes over the driver’s seat. And it refuses to move or share.

Our physiology and life starts increasingly getting driven by our psychology.

Our inherent desire to express ourselves, be ourselves and discover ourselves, gets shadowed by our conditioning, fear and safety.

The price we pay is not small and not immediately apparent. Here are two examples of how we sabotage ourselves.

First: everyone wants to be successful in their own way. That is natural, not crazy. The crazy part comes now. Everyone wants to win while playing safe. Now, how do you that? How do you move from one track to another without letting go. How can you paraglide if your feet want to stay on Earth.

Second: everyone feels like a misfit and different at some stage, and yet everyone tries to fit in all the time 🙄.

It does not matter, when did the head take over the heart. Your heart is still there. Find your own ways, to lower the volume of the noise, in the head. Dial up the beat of your heart.

You will hear your music again. It never goes away.

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